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    24th May 2012

    Living Life Day to Day: 101 Life Principles

    by  Celes 


    1. Ability: is more of a function of the time you spend honing your craft, rather than a result of what you were born with. Read: 10,000 Hours To Develop Talent10,000 Hours
    2. Abundance: We live in a world of abundance. There are unlimited wealth and unlimited opportunities for everyone. So don’t worry about whether you can succeed in something and focus on how to succeed in it.
    3. Action: is a necessary part of success.
    4. “And”, not “Or”: It’s not about choosing Option A or Option B. It’s about Option C – an option you create which has everything you want, and more.
    5. Anger: is the most volatile form of emotion you can ever burden yourself with. Every bit of anger you hold on to damages your soul. Whenever you feel angry, remember that the person you are hurting is yourself.
    6. Annoyances: Everything that annoys you mirrors something inside you. Rather than look outward for the solution, look inside to understand where that annoyance is coming from. Read: Day 22: Mirror an Annoyance, Be a Better Me in 30 Days Program
    7. Attachment: only causes anguish in the long run because nothing is permanent in this world. Don’t mourn over the loss of something. Be happy that it happened instead. Principle #10 of 10 Surefire Ways To Be Unhappy in LifeReal self hidden behind shadows
    8. Awareness: is the first step to the resolution of any problem.
    9. Beauty: Physical beauty is great but it doesn’t last. Inner beauty, on the other hand, stands the test of time. This doesn’t mean we shouldn’t improve our physical beauty – we should focus on being beautiful, both on the inside and out.
    10. Beauty, #2: There is no one standard of beauty. Beauty comes in all shapes, all sizes, all forms, all colors. You are beautiful as you are. Stop trying to conform to the image of beauty constructed by the society and embrace the beauty that is you.
    11. Being yourself: It is better to be a first rate version of yourself than a second rate version of someone else. (Judy Garland)
    12. Beliefs: Your beliefs affect your life more than you think they do. If you want to have the best life experience you can ever have, switch out your disempowering beliefs with empowering ones.
    13. Beliefs, #2: Half the things you say are usually more to do with your internal beliefs and issues than to do with other people.
    14. Blame: Whenever you point a finger at someone else, there are 4 other fingers pointing back at you.
    15. Business: In business, being the cog in the system also means you are the clog in the system. Learn to have your business run without you, be it via automating or outsourcing. Even if you still want to work on your business after that, that’s fine – it’s important that you work on the business and not in the business. Read: Million Dollar Tip #4: Scale Up Your WorkMillion Dollar Tip: Scale Up Your Work
    16. Change: Just because you have realized something doesn’t mean the world around you will change right away. It takes time for your thoughts to ripple out and effect the reality because the physical world is denser than the spiritual one. So don’t be hung up with what’s on the outside but stay true to what’s inside you. Be focused. (Refer to #33: Focus)
    17. Change that lasts: It’s better to create sustainable change than change that is quick but does not last. Stop going for the easy way out. Learn how to create lasting change instead.
    18. Changing people: You can’t change other people. You can only change yourself.
    19. Comparing: There is no need to compare because everyone is different. Your goal is not to be like others but to be yourself. Stop comparing with others and focus on being yourself instead. (See #11)
    20. Competition: The only competition you have is yourself.
    21. Conditional things: Something that is conditional can never stand the test of time. For example, if your partner wants to be with you only if you do X, Y and Z, whereby X, Y and Z are not things that you believe in. Or say, if a parent will only love his child if he aces his exams. These are relationships rooted in fear and not what you want to be a part of.
    22. Confidence: is a quality that comes from knowing oneself. It can’t be manufactured regardless of how many material objects you own or what statuses you have. Read: How To Be The Most Confident Person In The WorldConfidence
    23. Criticism: helps you to become better. Rather than reject it, celebrate it. Read: How To Give Constructive Criticism: 6 Helpful Suggestions
    24. Criticism, #2: Receiving criticism means what you are doing is worthwhile enough for people to critique on. One will not criticize unless he/she feels he/she has a stake in it. The more criticism you get, the better, because that means you are doing something of real value and worth.
    25. Cynics, Skeptics, and Pessimists: are not worth arguing with. They are negative time bombs waiting to go off. You will only end up (more) bitter, damaged, and upset at the end of the exchange. Read: How To Deal With Energy Vampires: 8 Simple Tips | Manifesto version
    26. Death: is part and parcel of life. With every death comes a new birth; with every birth comes an eventual death. Don’t mourn the dead. Celebrate the fact that they lived.
    27. Death, #2: There is nothing to fear about death for it happens to everyone. Rather than fear death, focus on living your best life instead. Read: Do You Dread Growing Older?
    28. Doing everything alone: You can’t accomplish everything by yourself. Even if you do, you can never accomplish as much as compared to if you had the help of others. Involve others in your goals. Delegate, outsource, and hire where applicable. Ask for help when you need to.
    29. Escaping: has never solved any problem for anyone. The moment you decide to face your problems is the moment you gain power over your life. (See #78)
    30. Failure: is a necessary part of success. Every great success is almost always preceded by a great failure. It’s more important that you learn from your failure(s) and harness the lesson(s) so you can achieve your next success.
    31. Fear: is a disempowering emotion to live with. Your real self is not filled with fear. Discard it and you will be set free. Read: How To Overcome Fear (3-part series)
      How To Overcome Fear
    32. Fear, #2: No matter how much fear you have, your fear can be conquered with love. (By love, I’m referring to universal love, not specifically romantic love.)
    33. Focus: is what happens when you stop letting yourself get distracted by the unimportant things.
    34. Force: You can’t force things to happen if they are not meant to be. There is a time and place for everything. You can only do what you can and let the universe take care of the rest.
    35. Forgiveness: isn’t about forgiving other people. It’s really about forgiving yourself. To quote Lewis Smedes, “To forgive is to set a prisoner free and discover that the prisoner was you.” Read: Day 25: Forgive Yourself, Be a Better Me in 30 Days Program
    36. Friendships: A friendship is a bond between two like-minded souls. If there are friends you no longer feel an affinity for, perhaps it’s time to let the friendships go and work on building new friendships. Read: Why I Parted Ways With My Best Friend of 10 Years
    37. Frustration: makes you feel bad and doesn’t help you solve your problem. Release the frustration in you and work on the issues instead. Read: 13 Helping Points When Things Don’t Go Your Way

      Daily Setbacks

    38. Fulfillment: You create a more fulfilling life by giving attention to the good things, not the bad things; by celebrating the good stuff, not whining about the bad stuff; by working on things that you love, not doing the things that you hate.
    39. Future: You can’t control the future, but you can affect the present moment. If you want to have a better future, create it. (Check out inspirational quotes on the Past, Present, Future.)
    40. Generosity: Being generous doesn’t deprive you. When you are generous to others, you subsequently receive more into your life. Read: Are You Emotionally Generous?
    41. Giving and Receiving: Rather than think about what you can receive (whether from people or from the universe), think about what you can give to others.
    42. Growth: Always challenge yourself to reach greater heights. There is always room to be better, regardless of who you are or what you have done. Be attached to the notion of growth, not an end state.
    43. Habits: Your habits make you who you are. Excellent habits give you an excellent life. Read: Cultivate Life Transforming Habits in 21 Days
    44. Happiness: is the result of doing what brings you joy. It is not a goal to be achieved. Rather than focus on being happy (for the sake of being happy), do what makes you happy instead. Read: How To Be Happy: 10 Timeless Principles for Lasting HappinessHappy girl
    45. Haste: Sometimes, more haste leads to less speed. Being in a hurry can lead to more mistakes compared to if you were not.
    46. Humility: will earn you more respect, acknowledgment and recognition than arrogance ever will. There’s no need to be a show off. If you are really good at what you do, it will automatically show through your accomplishments.
    47. Ideals: are good but don’t let them stop you from living in the present. They are meant to inspire you and give you a direction to move toward so that you can maximize your present moment (not to take you away from living in it).
    48. Improving: If you think you can’t improve any further in something, then you are just not aware of your areas for improvement.
    49. Individuality: Everyone is different. Accept that each and every person is unique. Stop imposing expectations on people.
    50. Inspiration: comes from being in the state of flow. If you’re not feeling inspired, you’re not in a state of flow.
    51. Intuition: When in doubt, follow your intuition. It will guide you to where you need to be.
    52. Intuition and Logic: Contrary to popular belief, intuition and logic are not at odds with each other – they go hand-in-hand. Hone your analytical mind through constant thinking. Cultivate your intuition by listening to your gut. They will be the biggest tools you have at your disposal.
    53. Jealousy: is what happens when you resent someone’s success. But you don’t have to, because you are capable of achieving that same level of success, and more.
    54. Judgement: Judging people doesn’t make you a better person. It only makes you an ugly one.
    55. Laughter: Perhaps a little cliche, but laughter is one of the best medicines for the soul. When’s the last time you had a good laugh? If you haven’t been laughing/smiling/grinning for a while, maybe you have been too stifled in your life. Go do something that makes you loosen up and laugh out loud.
    56. Let go: Sometimes you have to let go of what you have now in order to move forward. Read: Day 28: Let Go, Live a Better Life in 30 Days Program
    57. Let go, #2: If there is something you can’t let go of, dig deeper. There is probably something in you waiting to be uncovered. Read: Ask Celes – Is It Possible To Let Go of Unhappy Past Forever? and How To Move On From a Relationship (5-part series)
      Moving on
    58. Life: is an experience that you actively create, not something you wait around to “happen”.
    59. Limits: The only limit in life is yourself. No one’s stopping you from becoming better and achieving more except yourself. To reach greater heights, identify your limits and remove them accordingly.
    60. Love: isn’t something you deliberately seek out. It’s something that happens when you follow your life path, become the right person, and meet that right person along your life’s journey.
    61. Low consciousness people: If you do not want to be affected by people of low consciousness, simply raise your consciousness to a level where you are safe from them. Read: Map of ConsciousnessConsciousness
    62. Low consciousness people, #2: Low consciousness people hold you back from reaching greater heights. These include energy vampires, critical people, dishonest characters, and people with temperament issues. Let them go from your life and send them love as you do that.
    63. Material objects: are just tools to help you enjoy your life. You do not carry them with you when you die. So, don’t invest yourself in them. Rather, invest yourself in the development of your consciousness. Read: Materialism Breeds Unhappiness
    64. Meaning of life: is up to you to create. You can either treat life like it has no meaning or see it as this amazing opportunity that the universe has blessed you with. Read: Discover Your Purpose in the Next 30 MinutesMeaning of Life
    65. Mistakes: are there to help you learn more about yourself. Don’t be hung up about the mistakes you make. Don’t be afraid of making (more) mistakes either. Be hungry about the lessons they embody.
    66. Money: is a symbol of value exchange between people. The amount of money you earn is simply a representation of the value you are giving to others. To earn more money, simply create more value for others.
    67. Motivation: comes naturally when you do what you love.
    68. Nasty people: There is always something good in everyone – even in the nastiest of people. It’s up to you to recognize that.
    69. Nasty people, #2: The nastiest of people are also the unhappiest of people. Be kind to them because they are the ones who need your love the most.
    70. Obstacles: The obstacles that lie between you and your goals are not there to stop you from reaching your goals. They are there to stop the people who don’t want them enough. (Original quote by Randy Pausch. Watch his commencement speech at Carnegie Mellon: 10 Powerful and Inspiring Graduation Speeches You Don’t Want To Miss (#3 on the list))
    71. Opportunities: don’t come knocking on your door just by virtue of you doing nothing. You can either passively wait for opportunities to fall onto your lap or actively create them yourself.
    72. Passion: If you aren’t following your passion, you have nothing to lose. Seriously. If you have to work for at least 2/3s of your life, you might as well base it off your passion. Stop letting yourself be hung up by fear and start pursuing your dreams. Read: How To Overcome Fear Of Loss And Pursue Your Dreams and Passion or Money?Fear of Loss
    73. Past: You can’t change the past; it has happened and it is what it is. Fixating on it isn’t going to get you anywhere. You can only change the present to create a better future.
    74. People you dislike: Your life is limited, so spend it around people you like.
    75. Pleasing other people: When you live a life trying to please others, you end up not living a life at all. You are just living others’ lives under the facade of your life.
    76. Positivity: If you want to have more positivity in your life, start by being more positive yourself. Spot the silver lining behind every dark cloud. Recognize the strengths of the people you are with. See the good side of everything you have.
    77. Possibilities: We live in a world of possibilities. Anything you have ever dreamed of, imagined, or wished for, is possible, as long as you set your heart and soul to it.
    78. Power: You have all the power in you to do everything you ever want, and more. So start doing what you want and let the power in you emerge.
    79. Procrastination: is a sign of a bigger issue. Stop trying to fix your procrastination as a problem and start thinking about why you are procrastinating in the first place. Read: How To Overcome Procrastination (5-part series)Procrastination
    80. Progress: Celebrate how far you’ve come, and not how much you have yet to achieve. The former will empower you to greatness, while the latter is rooted in fear and only serves to hold you back from greatness.
    81. Priorities: Know what matters to you and work on them. These are the things that will bring you the greatest happiness in life. Read: Put First Things First
    82. Lead by example: If you want to initiate change, lead by example. Words can only do so much. A living example shows everything.
    83. Reality: Just like how the kind of fruit a tree bears is a result of the seed it is sown from, your external reality is merely a reflection of your internal beliefs. Change your beliefs and your reality will follow suit. (See #12)
    84. Regret: is what happens when you are stuck with the impression that you did (or didn’t do) something you wish you didn’t (or did). But you can’t change the past; no one can. Milk that is spilt can’t be unspilt. Stop living in the past and start living in the present.Spilt milk
    85. Relationships: A relationship is a bond between two dynamic individuals. It should be actively created between the parties involved, and not something you base off of norms and other relationships. Don’t impose expectations on your relationships; nurture them and let them come into their own. Read: How To Improve Your Relationship With Your Parents (series)
    86. Resistance: The more you resist something, the more it will persist.
    87. Respect: Everyone, no matter who, deserves respect. If you want others to respect you, it’s important you respect them first.
    88. Responsibility: Nobody is responsible for your life. You are. If you don’t take responsibility for your life, no one will. The day you stop pushing blame onto others is the day your life is going to turn around. Read: You are the CEO of Your LifeCEO - Chief Executive Officer
    89. Results: The results you get in life are a function of the actions you take. The more actions you take, the more results you will see.
    90. Root cause: Behind every occurrence is a root cause. Dig for the root cause and address that. Read: Create Real Change In Life: Address Root Cause vs. Effects
    91. Seeking love: If you are desperately seeking love, perhaps there’s something inside you that’s blocking you from seeing it. Because love is everywhere, around you, and in you. There’s no need to seek love so much as you just need to be aware of its presence . You are the product of love. You are the biggest source of love. You live in a world of love. Read: 8 Tips on Attracting Authentic Love Into Your Life
    92. Settling: Settling is for losers. Don’t ever, ever, settle for something less than your ideal. Your ideal is yours to have. Fight for it.
    93. Spite: When you try to spite other people, you are really just hurting yourself. The people you are trying to spite may not care. In fact, they may not even know how hung up you are over them. All you are doing is just acting out a self-created story and script in your mind.
    94. Success: Success is the result of being great at what you do. Being great at what you do is the result of hard work. Hard work is the result of determination, persistence, and relentless focus.
    95. Success, #2: There is no such thing as an overnight success. Every success you see, even if it seemingly quick, is the result of long periods of hard work that took place long before the point of success.
    96. Time: is a construct created by man so we can have structure in our lives. You become a slave to time when you always think in terms of the time you have and what you should do rather than of results and outputs. Rather than try to manage time, work on self-management and activity management. Read: Become the Master of Your TimeWatch
    97. Truth: It is always better to tell the truth because you stay clean that way. When you tell a lie, you live a lie forever. Not only that, you almost always have to cover it up with new lies. It is a cycle that never ends.
    98. Unhappiness: 100% of the unhappiness you experience in your life is a product of your thoughts. If you want to be happy, then make a conscious choice to be happy. (See #44)
    99. Vengeance: is an act of force/fear that doesn’t solve the problem. Look at the history of mankind and the wars that were waged. Go with the path of love, not fear/vengeance/force.
    100. What’s meant to be: If something is meant to be, it will happen (provided you do your part in making it happen). The more tightly you try to grab on to something, the more it will slip away. It’s just like trying to grab sand – it slips through the cracks of your fingers regardless how tightly you grab it.
    101. Yourself: Don’t do things for others; do them for yourself.
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    17th May 2012

    America's Happiest Seaside Towns


    We've ranked the top 15 happiest places to live on the coast. And the winners are...

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    • Kiawah Island, South Carolina

      1. Kiawah Island, South Carolina

    • Naples, Florida

      2. Naples, Florida

    • Sausalito, California

      3. Sausalito, California

    • Lake Bluff, Illinois

      4. Lake Bluff, Illinois

    • Tiburon, California

      5. Tiburon, California

    • Laguna Beach, California

      6. Laguna Beach, California

    • Half Moon Bay, California

      7. Half Moon Bay, California

    • Chatham, Massachusetts

      8. Chatham, Massachusetts

    • Jupiter, Florida

      9. Jupiter, Florida

    • Lahaina, Hawaii

      10. Lahaina, Hawaii

    • Marblehead, Massachusetts

      11. Marblehead, Massachusetts

    • Stinson Beach, California

      12. Stinson Beach, California

    • Cohasset, Massachusetts

      13. Cohasset, Massachusetts

    • Duxbury, Massachusetts

      14. Duxbury, Massachusetts

    • Solomons Island, Maryland

      15. Solomons Island, Maryland

    • How We Picked the Winners

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    13th May 2012

    Remember My Wonderful Mom On Mother's Day

    What I remember most about my mom??? Her daily consistency and devotion to God, her husband, and her family.  She wasted nothing, never asked for or expected much......up at 5 A.M. each day, cooking 3 meals every day, taking care of her chickens, working non-stop every spare minute in her 1 acre garden, harvesting and canning/freezing veggies during the growing season, and after supper, a rocking chair with her reading light on while she read each day for about an hour from her Bible.  She did all this with NO air conditioning (only fans).
     

    Then during the winter months, after her garden had stopped producing, she would put up her quilt frame and would hand sew quilts every day throughout the winter months.  She gave a quilt to every child, every grandchild and every great grand child. 

    To my mom a treat was being able to attend church, gone once or twice a month to her favorite ice cream store, Sabine Valley, get a single dip of orange pineapple ice cream, and eating out at Dairy Queen maybe once every 3 months.  

    She also enjoyed having neighbors over ..... we all sat on the long front porch, in a gentle breeze, the kids being quiet listening to all the great stories told by neighbors and my parents. All this while I was turning one handle of an ice cream freezer and one of my brothers turning the handle on another one.  Homemade ice cream made with 'raw' milk, mom's chicken eggs ..... the only thing bought was the sugar and vanilla.  One freezer of vanilla and one freezer of fresh peach.

    My mom was a very happy woman and never said a negative word about anyone .... just the way she was .... she lived and obeyed God''s Word to the best she could.  Her life was simple, fulfilling, poor, but none of us never were hungry, nor did we EVER accept or get any kind of welfare from the government.  She did donate a lot of her canned food to children's orphanage and to anyone she knew that might need it.

    And, most important to her, she never missed going to church every Wednesday night and twice on Sunday.

    She was a modest woman and never learned to drive a car until around 60. She could shoot a pistol and a rifle and was a lady / mom that spoke softly and but meant everything she said.

    Mom married my Dad at age 15 and was married to him for almost 70 years.  They went on their honeymoon all dress up in a horse drawn fancy buggy. My Mom wearing her Sunday Hat and wedding dress and my Dad a suit and tie with cowboy hat.

    One thing I never heard was a curse word come from her mouth.  When she was frustrated or upset, her strongest word was:  "Shoot".  When Mom said "Shoot", it was best to give her some space for a few minutes.

    Mom and my Dad came to every football game I played in, no matter how far or what time they would get there.  I enjoyed looking up in the stands and seeing both of them there....it was an inspiration for me to play even harder.  They both enjoyed being around the players as well as school kids.  On the return trips from our away games most of the time we stopped at a truck stop for hamburgers and chicken fried steaks.  Both my parents were right there with me and all the kids. 

    Just a short tribute to my WONDERFUL MOM WHO TAUGHT ME SO MUCH WITHOUT SAYING A LOT.  She led by example and good deeds, not by words.
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    9th May 2012

    The Fisherman and the PhD Businessman!

    There was once a businessman who was sitting by the beach in a small Brazilian village. As he sat, he saw a Brazilian fisherman rowing a small boat towards the shore having caught quite few big fish. The businessman was impressed and asked the fisherman, “How long does it take you to catch so many fish?”

    The fisherman replied, “Oh, just a short while.”

    “Then why don’t you stay longer at sea and catch even more?” The businessman was astonished.

    “This is enough to feed my whole family,” the fisherman said.

    The businessman then asked, “So, what do you do for the rest of the day?”

    The fisherman replied, “Well, I usually wake up early in the morning, go out to sea and catch a few fish, then go back and play with my kids. In the afternoon, I take a nap with my wife, and evening comes, I join my buddies in the village for a drink — we play guitar, sing and dance throughout the night.”

    The businessman offered a suggestion to the fisherman. “I am a PhD in business management. I could help you to become a more successful person. From now on, you should spend more time at sea and try to catch as many fish as possible. When you have saved enough money, you could buy a bigger boat and catch even more fish. Soon you will be able to afford to buy more boats, set up your own company, your own production plant for canned food and distribution network. By then, you will have moved out of this village and to Sao Paulo, where you can set up HQ to manage your other branches.”

    The fisherman continues, “And after that?”

    The businessman laughs heartily, “After that, you can live like a king in your own house, and when the time is right, you can go public and float your shares in the Stock Exchange, and you will be rich.”

    The fisherman asks, “And after that?”

    The businessman says, “After that, you can finally retire, you can move to a house by the fishing village, wake up early in the morning, catch a few fish, then return home to play with your kids, have a nice afternoon nap with your wife, and when evening comes, you can join your buddies for a drink, play the guitar, sing and dance throughout the night!”

    The fisherman smiled.

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    8th May 2012

    History of Mother's Day

    While the Mother's Day we celebrate is a fairly recent development, the basic idea goes back to ancient mythology—to the long ago civilizations of the Greeks and Romans.

    The Greeks paid annual homage to Cybele, the mother figure of their gods, and the Romans dedicated an annual spring festival to the mother of their gods.

    Mothering Sunday

    In 16th century England a celebration called "Mothering Sunday" was inaugurated—a Sunday set aside for visiting one's mother. The eldest son or daughter would bring a "mothering cake," which would be cut and shared by the entire family. Family reunions were the order of the day, with sons and daughters assuming all household duties and preparing a special dinner in honor of their mother. Sometime during the day the mother would attend special church services with her family.

    Julia Ward Howe

    Here in America, in 1872, Julia Ward Howe, famous author who fought for abolition, women's rights, and world peace, suggested that June 2 be set aside to honor mothers in the name of world peace. The idea died a quick death. Nothing new happened in this department until 1907, when a Miss Anna M. Jarvis, of Philadelphia, took up the banner.

    Anna M. Jarvis

    After her mother died in 1905, Miss Anna Jarvis campaigned for a national day to honor all mothers, an idea inspired by Mrs. Jarvis’s social work.

    On May 10, 1908, a Mother’s Day service was held at a church in Grafton, West Virginia, where Anna’s mother had taught. Thus was born the idea that the second Sunday in May be set aside to honor all mothers, dead or alive.

    Jarvis, the 'mother' of Mother's Day, bombarded public figures and various civic organizations with telegrams, letters, and in-person discussions. She addressed groups large and small. At her own expense, she wrote, printed, and distributed booklets extolling her idea.

    Her efforts came to the attention of the mayor of Philadelphia, who proclaimed a local Mother's Day. From the local level she went on to Washington, D.C. The politicians there knew a good thing when they saw it and were quick to lend verbal support.

    West Virginia was the first state to officially adopt the holiday, and others followed suit. Proclamation of the day by the various states led Representative J. Thomas Heflin of Alabama and Senator Morris Sheppard of Texas to present a joint resolution to Congress that Mother's Day be observed nation-wide. The resolution was passed by both houses.

    Mother's Day Today

    In 1914, President Woodrow Wilson signed a bill designating the second Sunday in May as a legal holiday to be called "Mother's Day"—dedicated "to the best mother in the world, your mother."

    For the first few years, the day was observed as a legal holiday, but in absolute simplicity and reverence—church services were held in honor of all mothers, living and dead.

    In many ways family observance much resembled that of the British version of "Mothering Sunday."

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    7th May 2012

    SuperMoon Pics From Around the World

    Supermoon2

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/national/health-science/supermoon-photos-from-around-the-world/2012/05/05/gIQAHqRa4T_gallery.html?tid=pm_national_gal#photo=1
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    1st May 2012

    Celtic Calendar....Quarter Days and Cross-Quarter Days

    Ever wonder why June is the month of weddings, how Groundhog Day got started, or why we old elections in the fall?The ancient Celtic calendar, divided into quarter days and cross-quarter days, may be responsible for the timing of present day rituals and holidays.

    The old Celts divided the year into four major sections and then divided each of these in half to make an eight-part year that reflected the natural procession of the seasons.

    The Quarter Days

    The days that marked the four major divisions of the year were called Quarter Days; they originally marked the four seasons, fitting readily into the rhythm of the ways people farmed. As the 12-month Roman calendar was adopted for both civil and religious purposes, all of the Celtic days began to conform more closely with the liturgical year of the Christian church and became identified with major religious festivals.

    March 25, Lady Day

    Lady Day became the traditional day for hiring farm laborers for the planting and harvesting seasons ahead. (In the church calendar, this day became the feast of the Angel Gabriel's annunciation to the Virgin Mary that she would be the mother of Christ.)

    June 24, Midsummer Day

    This was the midpoint of the growing season, halfway between planting and harvest. (The English church later celebrated this day as the birthday of John the Baptist, who foretold the birth of Jesus exactly six months later.

    September 29, Michaelmas

    The harvest commenced on this day, and there were great fairs and festivals. This started the custom of early autumnal elections, because it was a convenient time for people to gather. Elections came to be shifted to November in the American climate, where the harvest season was more stretched out.

    December 25, Christmas

    This day was the grand culmination of the old year and the first festival of the new year. The holiday originated as a solstice festival and celebrated a time of resting and gathering fertility for a new round of sowing and repeating. The Celtic rituals merged easily with the Christian celebration of the birth of Jesus. Farm workers were usually paid for their year's labor at Christmas, giving them reason to celebrate and three months rest before the next season.

    The Cross-Quarter Days

    These days marked the midpoint of each season.

    February 2, Candlemas

    Candlemas acquired its English name from the candles lit that day in churches to celebrate the presentation of the Christ Child in the temple of Jerusalem, but originally it was called Imbolc (lambs' milk) because the lambing season began. It was also called Brigantia for the Celtic female deity of light, calling attention to the Sun's being halfway on its advance from the winter solstice to the spring equinox.

    • It was not held as a good omen if the day itself was bright and sunny, for that betokened snow and frost to continue to the hiring of the laborers 6 weeks later on Lady Day.
    • If it was cloudy and dark, warmth and rain would thaw out the fields and have them ready for planting. Our Groundhog Day is a remote survivor of that belief.

    May 1, May Day

    May Day, or Beltane, was the halfway point between the beginning of spring and that of summer, a day for dance and song to hail the sown fields starting to sprout.

    • It was the day for young couples' pairing, though not yet their wedding, which would not come until the next Cross-Quarter Day, after three months of seeing how they suited each other.
    • Today's June weddings came from this tradition; given impatience of the couple, the waiting period came to be shortened to a six-week span.

    August 1, Lughnasaid

    Lughnasaid was the wedding of the Sun god Lugh to the Earth goddess, causing the ripening of crops.

    • The church transformed it into an offering from the first fruits of the land; the first loaves baked from the new wheat were offered at the Loaf Mass, which became corrupted in pronunciation to Lammas.

    October 31, Samhain

    Samhain, or Halloween, was the day when the cattle were brought in from pasture; those needed for the winter's supply of meat would be slaughtered. Since Samhain was the death-night of the old year, it came to be associated with ghosts and graveyards. It has happier associations too, such as apple bobbing, which was a form of telling fortunes for the new year.

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    18th April 2012

    French Lessons

    This is so true!  It's time parents started being real parents and not their child's best friend.

    FEBRUARY 9, 2012 BY SUSAN DENCH

    Pamela Druckerman – an American married to a Brit living in France with their three children - has written a very interesting book, “Bringing Up Bebe”,  about how the French parent.  My first thought was ‘”oh brother, another knock on Americans.” But as I started reading, I found some great nuggets which should be used in bringing up children, no matter the nationality.

    • Kids should be taught (“educated”) from birth to have patience, become self-reliant, be respectful and accept the word, “no.”
    • When children are given a stern look (Mrs. Druckerman calls them “big eyes” but in our house, my husband, who majored in social anthropology, calls them “baboon eyes”  after the signal these primates give potential enemies as a warning), they should actually know this means something and that there will be consequences for ignoring the message.
    • Children should be taught basic courtesies such as saying hello and good bye, thank you and please.
    • Parents must remind their children that, “It’s me who decides.”
    • One rule which we can learn from – instead of allowing the kids to graze all day, French children are allowed only one snack, usually between 4 and 4:30.

    Children do best with limitations, expectations, boundaries, accountability and consistent, fair and firm direction from involved parents. And it really doesn’t matter where they are brought up if these things are practiced.

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    17th April 2012

    The Simplicity of Twitter

    Written by Courtney Carver on April 17, 2012 

    I like Twitter. It’s my favorite form of social media and connecting. If you’ve never been on Twitter, it can be hard to understand the concept. Actually, the first 30 days of using Twitter are a little confusing. It isn’t that there is a lot to learn, but grasping that it is as simple as it is can be mind-boggling. It’s easier if you think about it as more social and less media.

    I know some of you are thinking, “Courtney, Twitter has been around for years. Everyone already knows all about it.” I used to think the same thing, but when I spoke to 60 really smart business women last Fall, less than 5% of attendees had a Twitter account. A handful had heard of Twitter and the rest looked at me like I was crazy taking about twits and tweets.

    What is Twitter?

    According to Wikipedia, Twitter is an online social networking service and microblogging service that enables its users to send and read text-based posts of up to 140 characters, known as “tweets”.

    Why should you consider Twitter?

    Like any social media platform, Twitter is not for everyone, but you’ll never know unless you try. Here are a few reasons to consider …

    • Twitter is simple. You don’t have to read a book or hire a social media expert to use Twitter. I think it’s much more user-friendly than Facebook or Google +.
    • Twitter isn’t time-consuming. Like anything else, you could spend mindless hours on Twitter, but if you follow the rules of engagement, use Twitter for good, and then get back to work, it can add value instead of steal time. I typically spend less than 20 minutes a day during the week on Twitter.
    • You can meet people on Twitter. If you like celebrities, you can see what they are thinking and ask them questions. Ok, bad example. You can connect with politicians. Uh, scratch that. What about authors, teachers, and specialists in fields that you care about? See who is talking about traveling, cooking or learning to knit.  I love meeting new bloggers, simple living advocates and writers. They are all 140 characters away.
    • People are nice on Twitter. Just like the grocery store, the people you meet on Twitter are usually nice. They can also be smart and helpful. When you encounter the opposite, a simple “unfollow” will suffice.
    • Twitter can help your business. This simple sharing format lets your clients/readers/people share the good (and bad) about you and your business. It’s word of mouth on fire.
    • Twitter replaces headline news. I hear about breaking news on Twitter before anywhere else. At that point, I can go deeper for details or move on.
    • Consuming information is manageable. If you follow 5000 people, you will experience information overwhelm. If you follow 50, you can manage what your tweeps have to offer. I suggest starting small. You can see who I follow here.
    • It’s easy to search on Twitter. Don’t know what to cook for dinner. Search for #dinnerideas. Need a little inspiration, search #inspirationalquotes.
    • It’s easy to share on Twitter. You don’t have to attach pictures, accept friends, create albums or anything but type up to 140 letters about what you would like to share.

    You don’t have to be a social media expert to learn twitter, or know much at all, but here are a few common terms that will help.

    Simple Twitter Terminology (From the Twitter Glossary)

    • Direct Message - Also called a DM and most recently called simply a “message,” these Tweets are private between the sender and recipient.
    • #FF - #FF stands for “Follow Friday.” Twitter users often suggest who others should follow on Fridays by tweeting with the hashtag #FF. (I think you should recommend others any day, not just Friday)
    • Hashtag - The # symbol is used to mark keywords or topics in a Tweet. It was created organically by Twitter users.
    • Mention - Mentioning another user in your Tweet by including the @ sign followed directly by their username is called a “mention”. Also refers to Tweets in which your username was included.
    • Retweet - The act of forwarding another user’s Tweet to all of your followers. When you Type “RT” before someones user name and share their tweet. For example: I tweet, Twitter is cool. Then you retweet with RT @bemorewithless Twitter is cool.

    I love Twitter for many reasons, but mostly because it’s simple and accessible and forces you to consider what you say. You can’t be wordy. If you are new to Twitter, say hi to me @bemorewithless, or ask a question. If you are a regular on Twitter, I want to hear from you too. If you don’t comment here, this blog can become a one way conversation. Twitter can change that.

    Like most anything in life, you can make Twitter as simple or complicated as you like. Keep it simple and get started! If you have a Twitter account, please comment below with your Twitter profile url and description and what you think about Twitter so readers can connect with you too!

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    16th April 2012

    What Are True Friends????

    A true friend doesn’t just talk of caring about you. They walk, rhumba and salsa their talk. They’re there when you need ‘em―and even when you say you don’t need ‘em―but really kinda do.

    A true friend always tells you the truth―including the stuff you haven’t been truthful about yourself. 

    You feel safe to talk to them about serious things―or the most absolutely goofiest things. 

    Plus you can sit in silence with them and still feel understood.

    A true friend roots for blessing to happen for you―and they do what they can to be one of your blessings.

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